Chocolates, clothing, flowers, jewellery, and lingerie may be one of the classics when it comes to romantic gifts, but nothing comes close to sex toys when you want to express your love and support for your partner! It’s the best gift you can get your partner. It’s fun, thoughtful, useful, and sexy and it screams ‘I care about you, your happiness, and your pleasure’! Just the right gift for a birthday, anniversary, valentines day, or for no occasion at all.
When it comes to choosing a gift for your vulva-owning partner that says ‘i love and support you’ just as much as it says ‘i want to make you moan with pleasure’ you know what to pick – a sex toy! But the dilemma doesn’t end there! There are a variety of sex toys for women available in the market, and although you may pick anything, whether a vibrator or a buttplug, this blog is about the classic dildo – it never fails to impress!
Now before you go on to shop for a dildo to gift your partner, read this! We know how difficult it is to even buy the right kind of accessories for your partner, imagine the amount of decision-making involved in buying a dildo – something that will be used intimately by your partner!
Well, we won’t just point out a problem without giving you a solution! Here’s all you need to know to pick the perfect dildo for your partner, one they’ll love receiving!
Types of dildos
Before you dive into the details, having a basic idea about the different kinds of dildos out there will help you make an informed choice!
- Realistic Dildos
These are visually appealing and designed with the details and intricacies of a real penis and such as veins, colour, size, girth, and feel. Most of them are also made with materials and silicones that feel close to the real stuff.
- Vibrating Dildos
Vibrating Dildos are designed to provide intense vibrations either through the shaft of the toy or through a separate bullet vibrator attached to the base. Some come with remote control, allowing for hands-free pleasure. Vibrating dildos are a popular choice especially if you are looking to add some extra excitement!
- Strap on Dildos
These dildos are designed to be worn with a harness and can be used for vaginal or anal penetration. They come in a range of sizes and shapes and can be worn by people of any gender. Want to buy strap-ons? Here’s all you need to know about Using and Buying Strap-on Dildos in India.
- G-spot dildos
These dildos are specifically designed to stimulate the G-spot, which is an area of the vagina that is sensitive to pressure. G-spot dildos often have a curved or bulbous shape which makes them the perfect toy to locate your G-spot in no time!
- Suction Dildos
Suction dildos come with a suction cup base, which allows them to be securely attached to flat surfaces such as walls or floors. This not only provides a hands-free experience but also allows you to try out different positions. Moreover, you can enjoy the feeling of being penetrated while also stimulating other areas of your body (since your hands are free)!
- Anal Dildos
Anal dildos are usually multifunctional and can be used for anal as well as vaginal penetration. The only difference is that anal dildos have a flared base to keep them from being sucked up your butt. Also, if you will be using one dildo for anal as well as vaginal penetration, don’t forget to change condoms every time you switch, because you are likely to end up with an infection if the bacteria from your rectum end up in your vagina!
This Guide to Using Dildos for Anal Play will surely come in handy!
You know all about the different types of dildos, now it’s time to make your choice. As we promised, we’ll guide you through that!
How to pick the right dildo for your partner?
This may be a tricky question for most of us, but the answer lies right in front of your eyes. The key to this is observation! You may want to surprise your partner and so can’t ask them straight, or your partner may be new to sex toys and may not know what they want. Either way, it is important to find out what your partner likes and dislikes when it comes to pleasure and penetration.
Reading your partner
Since there are different types of dildos, each catering to a specific kind of stimulation, to narrow down the categories, you must first find out what kind of sensations and stimulation your partner enjoys and prefers. Observe closely when you’re in bed together, see how their body reacts, and pay attention to their moans, expressions, words, and body language. Ask them ‘do you like this?’ as you stimulate their erogenous zones in different ways! And at last, if need be, just straight up ask them what kind of sensations they find pleasurable!
Here are some observations to make, and some questions to ask yourself or your partner to pick the perfect dildo for your partner!
- Are visuals a turn-on for your partner? Do they like keeping the lights on, or appreciate the appearance of a penis? If yes, you must consider a realistic Dildo!
- Does your partner reach orgasm more easily when clitoral stimulation is involved? Do they like an extra pack of sensations along with penetration? If yes, vibrating dildos are the perfect pick for them.
- Does your partner like switching roles? Would they like to try things out on the other side? Strap-on dildos will take them to the other side to experience the pleasure!
- Have you noticed your partner moaning in pleasure, especially while penetrating when you hit a certain sweet spot? That’s the g-spot! Your partner will love a g-spot dildo that will locate their sensitive spot and send waves of pleasure!
- Is your partner in need of some hands-free pleasure? Do they like other parts of their body to be stimulated during penetration? A suction cup dildo or a hands-free dildo is the best choice for them, its versatility makes room for experimentation and lots of pleasure!
- Does your partner like anal stimulation? Are they into anal play and penetration? If yes, check out dildos with a flared base, or designed with a scrotum (which also, acts as a flared base!)
If you think your partner would like more than one of these types, you can go ahead and buy more than one dildo – the more the merrier! However, if you have budget issues, go for the most versatile dildo, for example, a vibrating suction dildo with a flared base (like this one) ticks three of the categories for the price of one!
Quality check
Whether we are buying chocolates, flowers, clothes, or jewellery, we always check the quality before buying. When it comes to sex toys, it is only obvious for one to ensure that they are of the best quality, because you wouldn’t want to give your partner rashes, infections, UTIs, and discomfort wrapped as a dildo! So, if you have to pay a few extra bucks, that’s okay, but never compromise on the quality!
We’re guessing by now you are clear on which type of dildo/s is/are perfect for your partner, here’s what to look for before you finalise your pick!
- Body safe material
Here’s a quick guide on the materials you must avoid – cheap plastic, jelly, and rubber, and some harmful chemicals to watch out for are Timethytin chloride, Phenol, Carbon disulfide, Toluene, and Admium. Some of the best materials to invest in are body-safe silicone, stainless steel, borosilicate glass, and lucite!
- Design – Waterproof or not?
Nowadays, most sex toys are waterproof or water-resistant. You may want to check the description before you make the purchase, especially if your partner is likely to use the dildo in the shower, tub, or pool, or simply to make the cleanup process all the more convenient for them!
- Rechargeable or battery operated?
While basic dildos do not require a motor, or battery to operate, if you have chosen an automatic or vibrating dildo you may either opt for a (USB) rechargeable dildo or a battery-operated one. The choice is solely based on your preference!
Where to buy your dildos from?
Now that you’re all set to buy a dildo for your partner, you just need one final answer – where to buy a dildo in India? The answer is simple – Manzuri! Get the best dildo online in India at Manzuri, your one-stop shop for all your pleasure needs! Whether you are looking for dildos under 2000, the Best vibrating dildos under 5000 or strap-on dildos in India, we’ve got it all! Check out our collection of dildos and if you’re looking for something more to shower your partner with much-deserved love, check out sex toys for couples and fill up your carts!
P.S. Don’t forget to give them a bottle of lube along with the dildo (Read Lube It Up: All you need to know about lube), because a dildo without lube, is like bread without wine!
